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So I’m back in Sweden for a week and have a little while to mingle/party/get smushed on the T-bana with the Swedes.
So, I am well up for taking the lead in romantic matters. I spotted the guy as soon as we arrived: tall, blond (I suppose you could have guessed that); definitely cute. Ahh well, practice makes perfect 😉 Because as terrifying as it is, I like feeling free to start a conversation with someone who has caught my eye rather than feeling trapped by ridiculous and archaic notions of men liking to make the moves.Not least because, when your only option is to wait for the guy to call, if he doesn’t it’s difficult not to feel rejected even if you were hoping he wouldn’t.In Sweden, the ball is in both of our courts: if there is no second date, it is equally because he didn’t call and I didn’t either. The Observations and Advice from fellow Swedish women: – Women have to make the moves to make things happen – Text, text, text message…just don’t call – Go out on a date and really have no idea where you stand – Meet someone and have no idea where you stand after chatting for a few hours – Learn that they do seem to keep their feelings bottled up. – Ask the man for his number because he’s not asking you – “Swedish men are inconsiderate” i.e. the train, the queue, the store – People don’t really smile and flirt with the eyes.
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